Friday 1 September 2017

More is less

When we start SL i think a lot of us go crazy and dress like women of the night. The joy of having a slim avatar to dress and we think that the less we wear , the more guys we are going to attract.
Well in some cases that is true, but do we really want to chat with these kind of guys?
I have recently started going to clubs again and it has been so long since Judie put herself in a situation where she will be spoken to by guys ( well we imagine they are guys, but who can tell).
I take great pride in dressing Judie well, and not like some desperate woman who craves attention by letting it all hang out.
There are so many really good designers on SL and its a joy to put together outfits that attract attention for the 'right' reasons.
Just an example in the picture below. I was always taught that you can show top or bottom. Not both. Both is tarty. So if you have cleavage on display, dress more on the lower half. And if you want to show legs off, wear something that covers the boobs.
Last week i saw an avi in a pair of Addams highwaisted jeans and they looked so sexy. Judie usually wears hipsters, but after buying her a pair i noticed she looked so much more classy.
As you can see in the picture, i can show some cleavage and it dosn't look so undressed if she has these great jeans on.
Judie is wearing 

This dress is designed to show off legs using a lovely lacy texture to make the legs more visible and you can make it look even more classy by adding a bigger necklace/collar. It draws the attention away from the legs a bit and balanced out the legs. Especially if you have long legs like Judie.
Judie is wearing
I've taken a basic shape here and taken it from tarty to classy. This is a good example of showing leg and cleavage and it looks tacky. using the same colours and replacing the skirt with a sexy see through one and a beautifully textured lace top from ISON.
Judie is wearing
ISON feather shoes.As above
Argrace hair IBUKI as above
And this one!!!! Well i just wear this when i want to totally draw attention. You soon find out which guys are perving you if you stand with your back to a bar or wall in a club, and see how many IM's you get. 😏
Judie is wearing
[PPD] Lexi Backless string dress (I couldn't find this on MP. It is very old)
Argrace IBUKI as above

1 comment:

  1. BRILLIANT and so true! When you write out some basic rules it makes sense. It may not be common sense to everyone, depending on where they're from and taste... but it IS over all common sense because it makes a HUGE difference to dress also our av's like elegant women as opposed to tarts who don't know any better or attract the wrong kind of attention. :) BRAVA!!

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